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Low confidence in penis size ?

March 11th, 2010 Posted in portal.juzhang.com | edit
  • so i'm probably going to get laid next week, and i'm not too confident in my penis size. it's a little over 5 inches long, mostly because i'm not all the way through puberty yet. is this something the girl is going to laugh about and just leave because it's so small? please help.


  • lol i have never had a guy so small that i had sex with.i like mine bigger like 8 inches...but thats just me,believe me some girls dont want a big one and it will still feel good to the girl she can still get off but some advise for you would to do it fast and deep lol..


  • O well dont worry about it, girls dont mind.

    And if your not even done puporty yet then why are you f u c k i n g
    a college girl?? how old are you?


  • If you love this person then you'd know she wouldnt care. but, if u dont love eachother then idk wat to tell you. 5 is a average size but u didnt say how old you are so i cant really judge. no i dont think she would laugh and leave.


  • my guess is you're a virgin, am i right?

    I say wait for a girl that you actually care about, and that cares about you, she won't make fun of your penis size.

    This girl probably would though, since she's probably been with half the male pop. on campus.


  • Well if you're both drunk, then she probably won't remember anything the next day.

    Personally, I wouldn't get laid by some "**** from college" just for the sake of it. She's probably had everybody already.


  • You probably have no need worry about the size of your penis. Once you get inside a woman and she thinks she owns you, then you will have really difficult things to worry about. Most women have average vaginas and if you get more than an inch and a half bigger you may have to be careful not to hurt them during intercourse. You may feel better by understand that the "size" issue concerns both males and female: it's just that yours hangs out and the vagina is hidden from the eyes. Also you may find that the visual outside world of sex is not as important to women as it is to men; they tend to focus on the inside world of sensations which is where their climax takes place unseen. As noted in other answers there are no exercises, pumps, or pills or herbs that are going to change the size of your penis or your mate's vagina. Next, every one develops at different rates. You body size and penis size may not maximize until you are at least age 19.
    Here are the major studies (where someone other than the subject does and reports the measurements: self reporting adds about an inch to the results) which are taken on males of age 19 or above:
    Journal of Urology (1996?) L12.9 cm (5.08"), International Journal of Impotency (1998?) 13.6 cm (5.35"), and LifeStyles Condoms (2002?) 14.9 cm (5.9"): range nearly an inch (conclusion: most are between 5-6.5": less is small; more is big (not huge), p. 50 Flaccid 3.5" and Erect 6" (like me): another Soft 3" and 5" hard, 2" soft and 4.5" (225%), p. 51 this dude is 5.5", p. 51 The results from three studies of penis size where the measurements were taken in a laboratory setting give the following ranges:
    * Average penis length (flaccid/not erect): from 3.4 inches to 3.7 inches (8.6 cm to 9.3 cm)
    * Average penis length (erect): from 5.1 inches to 5.7 inches (12.9 cm to 14.5 cm)
    * Average penis girth (circumference when erect): from 3.5 inches to 3.9 inches (8.8 cm to 10 cm).
    Next, you do not really want to have a large penis unless you will be walking around in a men's shower room all the time and comparing yourself to other males. Only then might it be of some advantage to have a large penis: but even then, who, male or female, wants to give head to a penis that makes you want to chock and gag. Does not sound like fun to me.
    No discussion of penis size is complete without a discussion of vagina size: A key to good sex is match because vagina sizes vary just as penis sizes vary.
    You want to be a fit or match for a good number of women (not every women in the world): most women's vagina start out at 3" to 5" unarroused and expand under arousal in a inverse manner like flaccid penises (growers vs. showers) 200% for smaller ones and as little as 25% for larger ones so that 70% can handle a average L6" and 4.7" girth penis with pleasure.
    Length of the average unaroused vagina according to several textbooks I've read, the length of the vagina should be 3-4 inches long (7-10cm) (ref: Tim Chard, Basic Sciences for Obstetrics and Gynecology)Golfcrazie 03:32, 23 August 2007 (UTC)
    Other studies and articles I've read the unaroused and unpenetrated vagina is from 2-4 inches long (3" on average). Measurements are slightly different depending on whether you're measuring across the anterior or posterior wall, and position women is in (e.g. sitting, standing, etc...). (Comment: if 3" and increases 100% that gives only 6" max (but showers/growers may apply here and that being smaller vaginas may be able to increase a bit more percentage wise than large ones; clearly a 6-7" capacity would easily accommodate the average penis).
    The vagina has a cannon or barrel opening of about 2" in and here are some nerves; deeper in is the back space with no nerves but where the cervix resides. Only the first two inches envelope your penis. A bigger penis will need a larger vagina to avoid soreness and pain from hitting the cervix or he will have to avoid hard pounding some ladies like and going deep. And my lady does not like manufactured lubrication: it irritates her insides. You want a match that is can be felt but not too tight and not too loose. The tightness of virgins and most new encounters is results more from the nervousness of the female than her size or your size if both are average in equipment.
    Now there are some ladies (about 18% more or less) who have a larger vagina and need a larger penis for a good fit. But that has nothing to do with you unless you unfortunately fall in love with one of these women and she with you. And then sex is only one aspect of life of many factors. But no woman wants to be pounded raw and they hate it when a penis hits their cervix.
    Finally, to have mutually satisfying sexual experiences, in addition to finding a good match for your penis, you will need love, confidence in yourself, technique and duration. Even if you don't feel like youâ ™re the best stud in the world, when you are with a woman act like you're the best forher at that time. Learn what your woman likes and note that 60% of women especially the young ones do not climax from vaginal intercourse but from gentle manipulation of her clitoris. Learn about the clitoris. Listen to what your lady has to tell you about herself. Learn to use your tongue. And finally you must learn to last long enough for the female to throughly enjoy herself. As you grow older you will see that there comes a time when a man can hold out long enough routinely for the female to climax and the female learns to climax in a reasonable time. The final match.


  • If you are in puberty, then chances are she is too, and won't know there is a better size out there yet...


  • Your penis size is average. I don't know what else to tell you.


  • Don't worry just have fun. She just wants something to play with and if she doesn't then just have fun with someone even hotter who will be willing to accept you for your size. I am that size too.


  • If you approach the situation with questions - you won't do well at all. Make up your mind you've got what it takes & do it well. The size does not matter - it's what you do with what you've got that matters.


  • Don't worry.







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